LGBT Taking Auditions

I'd like to start out by saying I am in no way trying to be divisive. This is an honest question as a musician in the LGBT community. My partner and I live and both have family in "blue states" (only mentioning this because we are privileged to live in a state that has certain protections for us). I'm looking to take an audition in a red state but I can't help but feel like this isn't fair to my partner who has stable work where we live now. I don't fear conservative people nor do I assume everybody in "red states" is a bigot or anything of the sort. I know there are thriving LGBT communities all over the country, but in a pragmatic sense I and my family will have more rights where we live now in a state that has protections for us in place should the supreme court drop another decision on us. What are people's opinions on this? Should I just go for it and have an backup plan if certain policies be put in place? Lots of maybes here I know. Please I'm intending to be as respectful as possible and I hope the replies will be as well. Thank you!